My future Hubby:)

Lots of teenage girls obsess over marriage and married life and having a husband.  I am one of the.  Well, not really but sort of.  Obviously the most important thing any Christian looks for in a spouse is a strong relationship with God.  So that's just a given.  So this "blog" is going to be over the second most important characteristic.  It's kinda hard to narrow everything I'm looking for down to one, but I think I can do it.  One day last year me and my mom sat down and had a talk about what I was looking for in a husband and we came up with 21 pretty broad things.  Some of course weren't as serious as the others like "has to be attractive" and "has to be taller than me"(Yeah.. like that's even an issue).  But anyways we came up with that list and number one and two both have to do with Christianity but the third is "Has respect for my friends, family, and myself."  I think having respect for someone is very important.  Not just the actual person but what the person has to say as well.  It's okay if someone doesn't agree with you but they shouldn't be rude by telling you that your opinion sucks and theirs is right.  Also, you can't always be putting someone down, even if you're joking it shows a lack of respect for them.